Showing posts with label Christmas. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Christmas. Show all posts

Monday, November 25, 2013

Holiday Heroes - Make a United States soldier smile this Christmas!

Happy Monday, everyone! 

Last night on Facebook I ran across a meme talking about a program I never heard of before. Holiday Heroes through the Red Cross! Apparently, we can send a Christmas card with a personal message of thanks or well wishes, etc., to make a soldier's holiday brighter! I think this is wonderful. 

Whether I agree with the various wars we get involved in or not, I always support our troops. These men and women protect our freedoms so we can do what it is we'd like to. I always feel blessed to live in the United States, but our freedoms have not been won by people like me sitting on the sidelines being happy about those freedoms. Let's show our appreciation to our service people!



There are a few guidelines and restrictions (no inserts or glitter, for example) and also a place for donations to help veterans and/or soldiers' families. For more information, check out the web site at The Red Cross. http://www.redcross.org/support/get-involved/holiday-mail-for-heroes 

What an easy way to show our appreciation! Have a happy day and a wonderful week!!

~~ Chantel ~~

Wednesday, December 19, 2012

Chantel found part of the Help the Elf nice list!

Hi everyone! As you may remember, a few weeks ago PETE the Elf had a touch too much Eggnog at the Holiday Christmas Party and as he stumbled home, he lost Santa's NICE LIST.

The North Wind scattered the papers to all four corners of the world, and The Bookshelf Muse put out a call to help find them in order to SAVE CHRISTMAS.

Ever since I read about it, I've been on the lookout. And then today, EUREKA!

Yes that's right...I found part of Santa's missing NICE LIST. There it was, fluttering in the wind, half caught under the corner of my welcome mat. And shock of all shocks, I recognized the names on this portion of list, and I bet you will too.

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NAME: Rachelle Ayala

LOCATION: www.rachelleayala.com

NICE LEVEL: 91%

NAUGHTY LEVEL: 9%

OBSERVATIONS: Rachelle is a fantastic critique partner, awesome e-book formatter, always looks to help out Indie Authors, and is a great person in general. She could lay off those bad boy, alpha males, just a tad. We hear she is working on this problem currently and a certain man named Lucas is making things sweet. Rachelle has so much writing talent, we think we can overlook her naughty streak.

RECOMMENDATION:     a) Coal                   b) Gift

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NAME: Michele Shriver


NICE LEVEL: 86%

NAUGHTY LEVEL: 14%

OBSERVATIONS: Michele is an awesome critique partner, a wonderful lawyer who is giving of her time, and is always quick with a funny/snarky comment to make someone's day brighter. Another great person. However, we hear she is evil to her characters, and a few of them have been begging her to just leave them alone and give them their happily ever after. On the other hand, they all admit she is awesomely talented, so this comes out more on the naughty-but-nice side of the equation. 

RECOMMENDATION:     a) Coal                   b) Gift

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Because poor Pete is dashing all over the place trying to hunt down the rest of Santa's missing Nice List, I decided to take care of this one myself. Rachelle and Michele, I feel so blessed to know you! You are awesome writing friends and I'm so fortunate to know you! Enjoy the gift I sent to your inbox and have a wonderful Christmas!

Photo credit: assorted gold baubles (christmasstockimages.com) / CC BY 3.0

Visit The Bookshelf Muse at http://thebookshelfmuse.blogspot.com/ and see who else found a name on the list! 

I would like to take a moment to point out a few other fellow writers who deserve some recognition for all the help they've given me in the past year - check out their websites:


Kimberly Sullivan

And though these ladies do not have a website, I'd also like to thank Monterey Sirak (link is to her poetry books on Amazon) and budding author, Judester. Thank you all!

Enjoy these holiday lights and music! I really like this one! 



I hope you are all having a great holiday week with loved ones!
eeeChantelfff

Wednesday, December 12, 2012

Has true Christmas spirit been forgotten?

With the holidays rapidly approaching, it is always a time of year I take to reflect on the many blessings in my life and how grateful I am for each and every one of them. This year, I've had many new developments. In addition to my wonderful family and the home life I have, my job that keeps food on the table, and all the small blessings I won't list here, I had so many major changes this year. I published my first book, I made friends with a lot of great authors I wouldn't have come into contact with otherwise, met a few readers who have reached out and talked to me, and I found a passion for writing that is unlike anything I've ever experienced before. I'm generally a glass-half-full kind of person, but for the last few years, I've struggled with depression issues for various reasons. Writing has brought back to my life the kind of joy I remember feeling as a teenager. I've had some hard blows this year as well, especially with the rheumatoid arthritis diagnosis, but overall, I've been the recipient of more blessings than bad news...as I so often am. 

I'm very proud of my children, who have always seemed to grasp the fact that life isn't about having more than the next guy or keeping up with the Joneses. Our Christmas celebrations have been fairly small the last several years, as times are tough for everyone. My kids get a few things they really need and perhaps one gift they want. Most years we could spend more on them, but they like to adopt Christmas Angels off the trees from the stores and spend our Christmas money on children who wouldn't likely get anything otherwise. 

My daughter, Samantha (who is a senior in high school this year), heard on the radio last week that the cut off date was December 7th to turn gifts in for the angels. There was no way I could adopt one, as my shopping money for Christmas will come in right before Christmas itself (looks like another year of shopping on Christmas Eve for me--not an infrequent occurrence). When I told her we couldn't do it she shrugged and told me she was going to go drive around and maybe find herself a new pair of pants (that girl is always out shopping for a new pair of pants and NEVER comes home with one ;-).

What she came home with was an angel ticket for a ten-year-old girl who needs clothes and shoes, and really wants a bicycle. Samantha had an awesome bicycle, three shirts, a pair of pants, and new shoes in her car so she could return them to the drop off place the following day. 

When Samantha went to school the next day, her friends were all talking about the gifts they were going to buy for each other and what they wanted from each other. Samantha told them she was really sorry, but she just spent most of her Christmas money on a little girl and they wouldn't be getting very big presents from her this year. When they all badgered her about how much she spent on a little girl she didn't even know, Sam finally told them around $130. Imagine her shock when they said, "You're stupid! You'll never even meet that kid. She won't ever know what you did for her. What a waste of money!"

These kids spent the rest of the week angry with my daughter because she wouldn't be buying them expensive gifts this year... Really? Although we don't go to church, I am a Christian and I do speak with my children frequently about God and Jesus Christ and what our purpose on Earth is. My belief is your religion, race, sexual preference, sex, age, or amount of money do NOT determine whether or not you are a good person. My belief is we are here to love each other, to help those less fortunate than we are, and to spend our time trying to improve ourselves. 

All Samantha's friends are very strict Christians who go to church every single Sunday, look down at Samantha because she drank alcohol (at family functions) three times in her life, and sometimes tell her she's a bad person because we don't go to church. However, I don't understand how these same teenagers don't understand the meaning of Christmas! They are angry because Samantha made a decision to help someone less fortunate than all of them, instead of buying them each big gifts? They tell her she's stupid because the little girl will never give her any recognition for the good deed? 

I don't understand. What do they teach in some of these churches? And no, I'm not saying all churches are bad. I don't believe in organized religion but I do think it is good for some people. But still...how do they not understand what seems to me to be the most basic of Christian values? You do not give with the intention of receiving adoration and acknowledgment for giving. That is not the point. Samantha did it because she wanted to make sure someone with less than we have has a wonderful Christmas. 

I'm not trying to say my daughter is any better than anyone else, though I must admit to being extremely proud of her. I guess all this just makes me see even more that I am blessed. I hope anyone who sees this blog will take an extra moment to do something nice for a stranger this Christmas season. Even non-Christians can celebrate this way! Shovel your neighbors sidewalk without telling them you did it. Drop some food off on someone's doorstep that you know is struggling (but run away before they catch you and see who did it). Smile at the person in the store who looks down and needs a friendly face to lift them up that day. Anything...little things. Small kindnesses do make a difference. 

I believe that most people really want to be good people. Maybe that is my optimism showing, but I don't think any of us set out to be greedy or uncaring of others. I think in our 'me, me, me, get it now, bigger, faster, better society,' sometimes it's easy to forget about others and be very me-centric. I know I can be sometimes. I think we all can. The trick is looking outside our own family and selves at the bigger picture of life. 

Merry Christmas to all my readers and friends (if you have different beliefs than me, that's okay too - Happy Holidays, whatever that means to you). I wish you all great happiness and a wonderful year. Let's all hold the reason for the season in our hearts and do everything we can to be compassionate to our fellow man and love one another. 

Below is a video of lights synchronized to my favorite Christmas song, O Holy Night. Not the best light show I've ever seen, and I will be sharing others in the next few weeks, but I love Christmas music and I love Christmas lights, so this is perfect. Enjoy!




Peace and love, friends! Have a fantastic week!
eeeChantelfff