Happy Mother's Day to all you mom's out there!
Biggest shout out to my own Mommie! I love you so much!
My mom has always been there for me, and there are no words to express my gratitude for the sacrifices she made while raising me. I'm the youngest child of six, and by the time I came around my parents were going through tough times. They divorced when I was three, and my beautiful mother took on the task of being a single mom to six children! I can't even imagine that!
What I do know for sure is this--I had the best childhood a kid could hope for. Growing up in the country, swimming in canals, camping every weekend in the summer, barbecues, tree houses and flood irrigating. I'm sure we never had much money, but I never realized that. All I knew is we were happy.
I remember my mom used to feel bad because as the three youngest, my brothers and I didn't get a stay-at-home mother like the older kids did. However, I remember coming home from kindergarten once a month and mom would already be at work (she worked shift work at the potato plant to support us). She would have lunch sitting out for me with a sandwich, chips, half a Snickers bar and half a Pepsi. I used to love that. It made me feel so special that she took the time to do that before going to work and I got a special treat. She always felt bad because it was store bought stuff and not homemade. Funny the difference perspective makes.
If you read my post yesterday about Grams, you know already that music was an integral part of my life growing up. At home, I never remember the radio being off. When MTV came out, we always had that channel playing if not the radio. I remember one year my brothers went to live with my dad in California, and my sisters were already all married and moved out of the house. My mom and I lived in a little apartment in town for a couple months, just the two of us, and the radio was always playing. Our theme song that year was Bobby McFerrin's "Don't Worry, Be Happy" (YouTube link to Don't Worry, Be Happy) and to this day I sing that when I'm having a bad day. In fact, it's the ring tone I have set when Mom calls me.
The older I grew, the closer I became with my mom. I'm one of those fortunate people who didn't have tumultuous teenage years where I hated my parents. Instead, my mom has always been my best friend, teaching me right from wrong, championing me in all my life decisions, sitting on the phone for hours if I need a shoulder to cry on. She has always encouraged me and believed I could do anything. Everyone needs somebody like that in their life.
She put herself through college while also working and being a wonderful mother. I don't know how she did it all. I'm not sure she even slept during the years she went to college, educating herself to make a better life for us all. We lived a lot of places, we went through a lot of changes, but I always knew I could count on Mom.
Thank you, Mommie, for being the strong, independent, loving woman you are, and teaching me to be the same. When God picked the family to send me to, he definitely chose right! I love you so much! Happy Mother's Day!!
Great books:
Growing Up Country: Memories of an Iowa Farm Girl, Carol Bodensteiner, A memoir of a happy farm childhood. http://amzn.to/xRpHuY
Michal's Window by Rachelle Ayala - Love, Betrayal, Redemption: King David and the daughter of Saul, E-book: http://amzn.to/yO2mPy Paper Amazon: http://amzn.to/JDklTG B&N http://bit.ly/JPjoIF
Loyalty Binds Me by Joan Szechtman, A novel about Richard III in the 21st-century, E-book: http://tinyurl.com/79jxh8u Paperback Amazon: http://tinyurl.com/c563k48 B&N http://tinyurl.com/bsxnaty
Life on the Edge by Jennifer Comeaux - A story of love and perseverence. E-book: http://amzn.com/B006T89A4Y Paperback: http://amzn.com/1470101777
After Ten by Michele Shriver- A story of acceptance, forgiveness and the bonds of friendship. Amazon: http://amzn.com/B005YD4V7Q B&N: http://bit.ly/IgCvvK
Always & Forever by Chantel Rhondeau coming summer 2012 - A suspected murderess must start over - romantic suspense. Excerpt http://awe.sm/5on16
Michal's Window by Rachelle Ayala - Love, Betrayal, Redemption: King David and the daughter of Saul, E-book: http://amzn.to/yO2mPy Paper Amazon: http://amzn.to/JDklTG B&N http://bit.ly/JPjoIF
Loyalty Binds Me by Joan Szechtman, A novel about Richard III in the 21st-century, E-book: http://tinyurl.com/79jxh8u Paperback Amazon: http://tinyurl.com/c563k48 B&N http://tinyurl.com/bsxnaty
Life on the Edge by Jennifer Comeaux - A story of love and perseverence. E-book: http://amzn.com/B006T89A4Y Paperback: http://amzn.com/1470101777
After Ten by Michele Shriver- A story of acceptance, forgiveness and the bonds of friendship. Amazon: http://amzn.com/B005YD4V7Q B&N: http://bit.ly/IgCvvK
Always & Forever by Chantel Rhondeau coming summer 2012 - A suspected murderess must start over - romantic suspense. Excerpt http://awe.sm/5on16
Happy Mother's Day Chantel!
ReplyDeleteThank you, Kate! Right back at you! I hope you have a lovely day!
DeleteOOOOOHHHHHHH!!!!!! You are the absolute most loving, kind and beautiful daughter a mother could ever be blest to be given. I love you soooo much and you just don't know how much strength you have given to me throught our years together here on this earth. I know that we were together in heaven before we came to earth and that we will be a family when we leave here to return to our heavenly home for eternity. You are a wonderful mother yourself and I am amazed at how terific your very own parenting skills are. HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY!!! Mom
ReplyDeleteAh sucks, Mommie! :-) Thank you. It's cause I had a terrific teacher. Love you tons and more - The Cute One (and remind Poppa... I am THE cute one! LOL)
DeleteWow Britt, what a wonderful gift you have of putting thoughts onto paper. That is amazing and we do have the most wonderful mom in the world. Happy mothers day to you and I love you dearly!!!!
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Thanks, sis! And yes, we certainly do! Happy Mother's day to you! Love you soooo much!
DeleteBeautiful post, Chantel! And a Happy Mother's Day to you, too!
ReplyDeleteThanks so much, Kimberly! I hope your Mother's Day was terrific!
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ReplyDeleteYou know, this makes me think of the kids who aren't as lucky as some of us when it comes to having mothers who care and fight for us. :(
Gah. Anyways! This was beautiful!
Your absolutely right, Karla. Sometimes it is easy to take for granted that we have such wonderful people in our lives, but not everyone is so fortunate. I'm definitely a very blessed person!
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